We can be quick to judge each other. Especially, when meeting someone for the first time. Since we are all unique, having different values and upbringings. We can find other peoples way of life to be strange or against our own values ❤
It is the differences that one notices in another and can find difficult to understand which causes them to expand on their thoughts. Judging what we believe someone to be from their gestures, clothes, shoes, hair and overall looks is common. Some can judge to determine if they will get along with the person. Others can judge to confirm with their own knowledge if a person is safe to interact with.
Even so, if you think someone looks scary, they could be the nicest person you have ever met. Someone who looks quiet and nice may be a person who has bad intentions. The truth is that you cannot judge a book by its cover and the same statement applies when looking at a person. To know a person is to get to know them. You can do this by spending quality time with them. After spending time with them it is still best to not judge at all 🙂
To stop judging, you need to shift away any judging thoughts that you make about a person. When you think about it, no matter what you believe about a person or say who you think they are. Your thoughts do not define who they are, it only defines you. Only they know who they are, as only you know who you are. Judging does no good ❤
Someone may believe that you are confident based on how you walk and smile towards others. Yet, you may feel that your confidence is low and that you are a shy person. Another person may think that your words are unkind but you cannot help being honest when they ask for your opinion on topics. It happens often, as people judge each other and have their own perspective on how they believe a person is.
Choose to do your best to stop judging other people. Whether it is your family, friends or coworkers. Accept that no matter what you believe about a person, it does not make it true. Every time you judge, you define yourself as a judgy person. Let people be themselves and reveal who they are on their own terms. No one is obligated to live up to your opinions or acknowledge them.
Spread kindness and love wherever you go. Embrace the beauty in being different. We are all unique and have our own gifts to share with the world. If we were all the same, there would be nothing to offer. Appreciate other people and our lovely planet. We can encourage each other to be kind and always look for the good in others. Kindness will take us a long way 😀
Today on my YouTube channel I am sharing with you a rabbit on top of leaves mixed media drawing. Rabbits are adorable animals. I love seeing them running about in rural areas. They are so cute. We are now up to day 140 of my #drawingdailychallenge. Keep your thoughts about others positive. Do not make assumptions as to what you think about another person, as assuming can be often wrong and automatically determine your view of a person ❤
I hope you enjoy the video. Thank you so much for reading and watching! Have love for all beings. Be kind wherever you go. Spreading more love throughout our lovely planet is what we need to do. Let people be themselves, as long as they are not hurting anyone it is fine to do what they want. Have a happy day!
Capili Jiron x x