It can be easy to compliment others. Saying nice things to our loved ones and those who we admire. Yet, it can be difficult to give compliments and do nice things for ourselves. Why is it like this for many? โค

It seems that a lot of people care more about what others think than their own thoughts. So they tend to want every person to like them, including people who they do not get along with. As human beings we seek to connect with others and want to form strong relationships while giving our best impression ๐
What other people think about us, particularly our family, friends and co-workers, is important. We want them to think of us in a positive light. This is needed but also pointless in a way. Yes, it is good to put your best foot forward and be kind to everyone but you should not have to worry about what people think of you. No matter what you do, each person will have their own opinions about you.

One may believe you are a hard worker, while another thinks you are too career focused. Another person may see you as family oriented, while the other person believes you could do more with your life if you spent less time with your family. Everyone has their own perspective on what they believe a person is like. They form their own image of who they think you are โค
Their opinions can be positive or negative. They may know little or a lot about you. Either way it does not matter what they think. What truly matters is what you think about yourself. You are the only person who knows yourself the best, as you are you. So choose to be less hard on yourself. You are the person who needs to know your potential and always see the best in you.

It is easier for others to see the good in you when you choose to be kind and believe in your own dreams. Most will be supportive when they can see how passionate you are about your goals. Even then there will be some who dislike you and that is fine. We are all different and choose to live our lives in our own way. Do your best to limit any negative thoughts and keep your mind positive ๐
You need to be your best friend at times since there are moments where you go through difficult situations. Being resilient is helpful as you can pick yourself up when you fail and still have a love for yourself that will lead you to achieving your dreams. Say nice things and buy yourself gifts for your hard work. You deserve to live your best life and be happy.
Today on my YouTube channel I am sharing with you a pastel purple night sky art acrylic painting. I love starry nights. The night is a magical time where the sun goes down and the sparkling stars come out. I find night skies inspiring to look up to and take in. There is so much in our universe to discover and explore โค
I hope you enjoy the video. Thank you so much for reading and watching! Love who you are and all that you do. Be kind, not only to others but to yourself as well. You deserve to live your best life and achieve all that you desire. Keep moving forward. Have a lovely day!
Capili Jiron x x