Our dreams can range in different sizes. Some are big while others are small. This can depend on the perspective of a person. You may see your dream as small, yet others tell you it is big and out of reach ❤
For any dream that you have, you need to believe in yourself that you can obtain it. There needs to be a feeling that your dreams are natural and will manifest into your reality. You are the only person who can make your dreams come true. You hold the power to change your life for the better 🙂
This is a wonderful thing as no one can stop you. Some may say that you do not have the ability to reach your dreams or that it is impossible for such a dream to come true. Choose to ignore these negative thoughts of theirs as it is of their limitations, not your own. They chose to believe that they can never achieve what you are aiming for, so they believe that you cannot as well.
If your family or friends do not support your dreams, they may try to talk you out of working towards them. A positive reason is that they want to help prevent you from failing as they do not want to see you get hurt in the process. The negative reason could be selfish, where they do not want to see you succeed, as they have crab mentality by trying to stop you from leaving the pack.
Hopefully, it is the positive reason which is still not that positive but is a way of showing they care about you. Crab mentality is terrible. It is a saying that is based on crabs in a barrel. If there is a bunch of crabs in a barrel and one crab tries to climb out to escape, the other crabs will drag it back down. When people try to do this to you, it is because they do not want you to succeed at something that they feel they cannot do.
If you notice this behaviour with your family or friends, then confront them to let them know they need to stop, and they choose not to. You need to let them go. Not necessarily cut them out of your life, you can interact with them less. If you drift apart, it is fine. If they review their actions and change to be positive, that is wonderful. Only they can change themselves, you need to let them be 😀
Keep your focus on making your mind positive. Think positive thoughts, say affirmations daily and visualise your dreams as if you have already obtained them. Your life is yours, so you need to do what is best for yourself. As long as you are not hurting anyone, keep going for your dreams. Do what you love each day and aim to be the best version of yourself.
Today on my YouTube channel I am sharing with you a black-capped chickadee on tree coloured pencil drawing. They look happy sitting in a crabapple tree. Birds are lovely to see in nature. We are now up to day 177 of my #drawingdailychallenge. Allow your dreams to feel natural. Whatever it is that you want to achieve, you can get there ❤
I hope you enjoy the video. Thank you so much for reading and watching! Appreciate every moment in your life. Be thankful for all that you have and wonderful opportunities will come your way. Keep going for your dreams. Have a great day!
Capili Jiron x x