There are many expectations that we can feel the need to live up to. That of our parents, teachers, manager and partner are all people who can expect us to be a certain way. This can confuse who we believe to be and lead to doubt with our dreams ❤
Your parents may expect you to be polite and go after a job that is of a high salary, yet you want to follow your heart and do not care about money. Your teachers can be expecting you to complete assignments that you find are of no use to you, as you feel that this is not the type of learning you signed up for. Your manager has allocated more tasks as they feel you are a great candidate for a promotion, yet you dislike your job.
Your partner feels that you are too driven and need relax more, yet achieving your goals makes you happy. The expectations of others is based on their own perspectives of you and what their beliefs are. You may already recognise that if you took a job only because it is high paying, you would be miserable each day. Halfway through your degree you could realise that this is not what you want to do with your life and choose to leave ❤
Since you do not like your job, it is obvious that you do not want to do the extra work or be promoted. You are just working to fund your dreams anyway. If completing your goals makes you happy and keeps you motivated, stick to it. Only you know what it is that you want in life. You are the only one who can make yourself do anything. Do whatever makes you happy.
Of course, do not get offended by peoples opinions. Most have good intentions and do not want to see you get hurt. Failure is never nice for anyone, so their fears can push them to do what they can to prevent you from going through difficult circumstances. Let them know you are thankful for their input and that you still want to take the risk as you do not see yourself doing anything else 🙂
You can choose not to explain why you are following your dreams, as you are not obligated to but it is kind to give a reason to those who you care about. Just think of the times where you have given your loved ones advice about their situation as you care and how it felt good when they were thankful about your input. Live your life as you choose but do not cut people out of your life just because they do not agree.
We are all unique and have different interests, values and ways of life. This is what makes our world lovely and full of wonderful ideas. Appreciate your loved ones and your goals. You are amazing and can overcome anything. Achieve your dreams for yourself and spread kindness in the process. Be supportive of your loved ones dreams too 😀
Today on my YouTube channel I am sharing with you a sunny happy blue waterfalls art acrylic painting. Nature is stunning to be out in. Waterfalls are peaceful and relaxing to be near. I love the sound of water falling down from rock to rock. It is the most wonderful sound to meditate to. Nature is the best ❤
I hope you enjoy the video. Thank you so much for reading and watching! You hold the power to change your life for the better. Choose to live your life as you please. Enjoy moments with your loved ones, as well as alone. Be kind always. Have a great day!
Capili Jiron x x