Self-love is the most important type of love. To be able to fully love someone else, you need to love yourself as you cannot give what you do not have. Love is what makes our lovely planet a better place ❤
Some people can get confused with what self-love is. They may think that those who love themselves are selfish people who only care about themselves and do not care about others. The truth is very much the opposite. Those who radiate self-love are kind and loving. They are independent, do not mind being alone at times and spend time doing the things that they love 🙂
They see the good in other people and want the best for everyone. A person who loves themselves wants to spread love because that is what they know. They are happy and want the world to smile. A person who hates themselves automatically spreads hate as that is what they know. To love yourself means that you make yourself happy and do not rely on others for your own happiness.
You can easily ignore the negative things that other people say about you as you understand that they are entitled to their opinion. You know that you are the only one who defines yourself. Nothing can bring you down. A person who does not have self-love will search for things and people to make them happy. They feel that they are always lacking something.
Nothing seems to satisfy them. They constantly look for happiness and answers to their questions on the outside instead of searching within themselves. It is only natural for most of us to look for answers from others as when we were little we would be told by our parents what to do, how to be and what is right or wrong. The same goes for when we had teachers in school. What is truly needed is that we look for the answers within ourselves ❤
Your opinion about yourself is what is most important. You are living your life and are on your own journey. No one can tell you what to do with your life as they cannot see your future, do not know your circumstances and are not you. You cannot tell anyone what to do. All we can do is give and listen to advice but we do not have to follow through with someone’s opinion.
Learn to love yourself. You can start by getting a pen and some paper. Write one thing that you feel you are good at. Let’s say it is cooking. Go to your mirror and say, “I am great at cooking”. Look into your eyes as you say it. Say it five times when you wake up and before you sleep. When you are done with it, write something you want to be better at. Let’s say it is confidence. The next day say, “I am confident”. This can uplift your positive energy 😀
Today on my YouTube channel I am sharing with you a peaceful paradise blue waterfall art acrylic painting. Waterfalls are stunning and relaxing to see in person. I love hearing the sound of water falling and flowing. The ocean, rivers and lakes are all beautiful places that I love to visit. Always make time to be out in nature ❤
I hope you enjoy the video. Thank you so much for reading and watching! Love who you are and all that you do. Believe in and trust yourself. You know what is best for you. Spread kindness and love wherever you go. Smile, you are amazing. Have a cheerful day!
Capili Jiron x x