What you believe about yourself is more important than what others think of you. You know yourself best as you are you. Often at times we can seek for answers outside of ourselves, when all we need to do is take a moment to breathe and take a look into our mind ❤
Value who you are. Understanding your value can take a lifetime but it does not have to. Every person on our lovely planet has greatness within them. There is no need to compete with one another as there is enough room for everyone to be successful in their chosen purpose. The only person who you need to compete with is yourself. Find ways to grow with your personal development every day and become better than who you were yesterday ❤
You are the one who determines your value. If you feel that people are constantly walking over you, there must be a part of you that is letting them. It can be strange to think about, yet it makes a lot of sense that we teach others how to treat us. If someone gets you to do them a favour and you accept, then they get you to do another one and another one and so on. This becomes a pattern of them using you.
You may be questioning why they are using you and wanting to know when it will stop. You have to learn to say no. It is fine to say no to a request. You do not have to say yes for people to like you. In fact, it does not matter how nice you are when you say yes or no. You could be the nicest person in the world and there will still be some people who do not like you. You cannot please everyone, no one can.
The way that you act towards another person is how you teach them to treat you. If you say no and they may keep trying to ask you to do them a favour, you can let them know that your answer is not going to change. Stand your ground. There is no point doing something for someone else who you know wants to take advantage of you. Saying no does not make you rude and if people feel that you are being rude towards them, let them have their opinions 🙂
You do not need to explain yourself to others when you say no. Even if it is to family and friends. If you want to, do so but if someone is forcing you to explain yourself, politely decline. There is no point getting angry or annoyed when you do not want to do something. Simply say no and move on. Taking care of your health and wellbeing is much needed. When you understand your value, you know that you need to take good care of yourself to function at your best.
Eating healthy, listening to music, meditating, writing in your journal, exercising and having meaningful relationships are all important areas when taking care of yourself. When you feel happy with all that you have is when you are truly at your highest self. It is positive energy that flows throughout you, along with the kindness in your heart and peace in your mind. You are love and give love. You see love and happiness everywhere that you go 😀
Today on my YouTube channel I am sharing with you a birds, pink mushrooms and flowers mixed media drawing. Birds are adorable. Flowers and mushrooms are magical. It is peaceful to see nature. We are now up to day 144 of my #drawingdailychallenge. To love yourself is not selfish as those who love themselves are happy and grateful. To not love yourself is selfish because if you do not love yourself, you will look to others to make you happy. No one can make you happy, only you can ❤
I hope you enjoy the video. Thank you so much for reading and watching! Love yourself and life. Our lovely planet is filled with love, you just have to open your eyes and be kind to all. Value who you are by choosing to love yourself and keep going for your dreams. Have a happy day!
Capili Jiron x x