We each have our own ways of life. The way that we do things, choose to live, view success and our own personalities each differ. It is beautiful that we are all different as it would be boring if we were the same. Not everyone has this view though. Some wonder why other people are the way they are ❤
When you enter any relationship, whether it be intimate, as a friendship or if you are wanting to strengthen your bond with a relative, you have to be willing to let them be who they are. Of course, you can give advice and let them know how you feel about particular topics but you should never try to change who they are.
The first reason being that you need to love people as they are, as we would want someone to accept us for who we are, flaws and all. We need to be willing to do the same for others. The second reason is that no one can change due to someone demanding that they do so. The only person who can change them, is themselves. As you are the only person who can change yourself 🙂
It can hard to think about, especially if you know that a loved one is causing harm to themselves but you cannot force them to do anything. It is bad, yet also a good thing, as I am sure you would want to have a choice in every matter involving yourself. Imagine that other people could change you, how confusing and exhausting would that be?
I love that I am in control of my own mind. I decide on what my beliefs, values and goals are. You can do the same and no one can take that away from you. Even if someone believes that they have control of another person, they may have some influence over them but they will never be able to control them 100 percent. The mind is powerful and can change at the command of ones own will 😀
Love others for who they are. If you truly love someone, you will not try to change them. You will accept them as they are, flaws and all. Your good intentions will be that you choose to be kind, have a loving relationship and want the best for them. You can suggest things that will help them improve according to who they are and support them with their dreams.
As time goes on, you will both continue to support one another with all the changes that come along the way. If you each head in different directions with time, it is fine to part and go your separate ways but always embrace the loving memories that you had together. Love yourself enough to know that you are enough as you are, as they are enough as they are, even if it means being on your own at times ❤
Today on my YouTube channel I am sharing with you a sunrise mountain lake doodle art gel pen drawing. It is magical to see a sunrise over mountains. Mountains are stunning to see with beautiful surrounding nature. Nature is the best. We are now up to day 129 of my #drawingdailychallenge. Embrace the unique qualities of each of your loved ones. Support them as much as you can ❤
I hope you enjoy the video. Thank you so much for reading and watching! Appreciate your loved ones for who the are. Focus on seeing the good in others. Treat all people with kindness, love and respect. Be love and spread love wherever you go. Have a lovely day!
Capili Jiron x x