Thoughts are instant and can be confronting. When you think about it, we are with our minds 24/7. At times it can be a scary place. For the most part, we want to have thoughts that are positive and encouraging. Good thoughts that will make our days easier 🙂
It can be common to want to have good thoughts about ourselves but what about others? What comes to mind when you think about other people who you interact with? Are your thoughts positive or negative? There are so many questions that we can ask and have many answers for each. A good question to ask is why do we instantly judge other beings?
Especially, when we do not like hearing what other people think about us. Sure, with time you can get more confident with who you are and ignore what others say about you. Yet, still there will be moments when the thoughts of others can get to you. Making judgements about another being is normal and something that we all do. Whether you would like to admit it or not ❤
Judgements occur at any time. A common time is when we meet someone for the first time. It is first based upon how a person looks. You will look at their facial expression, what they are wearing and mannerisms. Then you will see how they talk and act towards you. This already sounds unkind to do such a thing but it is only natural that you want to figure out what the other person is like, right?
As the years go on, you will become prone to be more judgy. It is not because you think that you are better than anyone or want to cause harm to another person. The main reason is due to your own experiences in life, you want to protect yourself from letting in a person who may potentially cause you harm. When you look at it from this perspective, it is understandable why we have instant thoughts about others.
Doing this can be helpful but you must ensure that you do not do it too much, otherwise you may live a lonely life. As human beings we need to have healthy relationships with others. It is good to have some close people in your life that you can rely on and have good experiences with. Sure, it can be great to build a wonderful career for yourself and have lovely things.
However, you cannot take your belongings to your grave. Relationships are much more important. What you take with you is knowing that you lived a great life, filled with beautiful experiences with your loved ones. Find a balance where you can be cautious of who you befriend and also be open to letting people into your heart. Like attracts like, so as long as you have kind intentions, other people will towards you too 😀
Today on my YouTube channel I am sharing with you a happy cat mermaid doodle art gel pen drawing. Cats and mermaids are beautiful. I enjoy drawing mystical creatures. We are now up to day 127 of my #drawingdailychallenge. Take every person who you interact with as a teacher. We can learn many things from anyone and teach others by using our own experiences ❤
I hope you enjoy the video. Thank you so much for reading and watching! Do your best to not judge others and have an open heart. Spread kindness and love wherever you go. The love you share with others will come back to you. Be grateful every day. Have a good day!
Capili Jiron x x