Not every decision is easy to make. Some seem simple but it can depend on the person. What is easy for some, can be hard for others. You may be hesitant to make a choice, especially when you know your decision will have a permanent impact ❤
We want to make the right choice for ourselves when deciding between options to take. Many think of how it will impact themselves and can forget about the possible effect that it may have on others around them. It is important to consider your loved ones when making a choice that you know will involve them.
If you are in a committed relationship, you cannot decide on your own to apply for a job that is in another city because it is a situation that will change both your life and your partners. Hopefully, you do not make choices like that on your own. When you have a partner, there needs to be love, complete communication and honesty 🙂
No secrets should exist, as secrets can cause problems and the truth always comes out. You do not want to be caught in a lie, so be honest. If your dream job is in another city, talk to your partner about it. Maybe they will be happy to move. Change is good as it allows people to grow and have new experiences. If they do not want to move, you then need to decide what is more important. Your partner or dream career?
If you choose your partner and stay in your current city, you cannot have any resentment towards them. Holding grudges is poison and will eat you up inside. Instead find another way to live your dreams where you currently live. If you feel that you cannot choose between the two, do not put pressure on your partner to decide. Since you want to do this, you are the one who needs to decide.
No one can make a decision for you. Even if someone believes that you are doing what they say, it is only you who is in control of yourself. Learn to get better at making decisions. Make a choice and stick to it. If it does not work out, it is fine. It is better to make a choice than letting life just happen. Take ownership of your choices and learn from your mistakes 😀
Believe in yourself to make your own decisions. Each experience can make you stronger as it allows you to learn and grow. If you let everyone else make a decision for you, you will not grow into the best version of yourself. You will depend too much on others and will find it very hard to achieve your dreams. Have courage and make your own choices.
Today on my YouTube channel I am sharing with you a bear holding a flower basket mixed media drawing. Bears are adorable. I love bears so much. This bear is cute holding a basket of flowers. It is now day 118 of my #drawingdailychallenge. Keep going with your dreams and trust yourself with your decisions ❤
I hope you enjoy the video. Thank you so much for reading and watching! Love yourself and make decisions as best you can. It is fine to make mistakes, it is how we learn to better ourselves. Learn something new every day. Have a happy day!
Capili Jiron x x
Artist by Beauty 