Trust is an important trait to have. We want to trust those who we care about the most, as well as ourselves. It can be difficult to trust another being when you have had many unpleasant experiences ❤
It is never nice when another person hurts you. Particularly if it is a loved one. When someone who we care about deeply hurts us, it can chip away at the trust that we have for them. In the worse of times, trust can be completely shattered if they did something beyond belief. Trust stems from love. It is built and earned over time in any relationship.
When the trust is gone, it possibly may not return. It depends on what the person did and if they have been forgiven. As hard as it is, you need to forgive a person who has done you wrong because if you do not, you will carry that poison for the rest of your life. Yes, the pain is real and you deserve to grieve but you eventually have to let it go to move forward with your life in a healthy manner ❤
Forgiveness is needed. Not only must we forgive those who have hurt us, we need to forgive ourselves. Yes, we all make mistakes and poor decisions from time to time. No one is perfect and every person is on a continuous journey in life. Learning and growing is what we do. Without mistakes, we cannot grow. It is in the moments of suffering that we tend to learn the most valuable lessons.
The lovely thing is that we have the ability to choose. We can either choose to learn lessons from our mistakes, ignore what has happened or dwell on the past and punish ourselves for life. It is best to learn lessons and forgive ourselves. There is beautiful love and kindness within our hearts. We have the power to change, so choose to forgive yourself and do not repeat the same mistake again 🙂
If you keep repeating the same mistake, it means that it is a pattern. One that can come from being impulsive and having little control over your behaviour. If you recognise this, speak to your doctor and they will be able to help you. We all have flaws and should not ever be afraid to ask for help. Taking care of our health and wellbeing needs to be a priority.
Trust in yourself to do the right thing. Life is about love. Loving ourselves and others. Aim to grow into the best version of yourself and spread kindness wherever you go. Understand that you are important and needed on our lovely planet. Keep going for your dreams and never give up on self-improvement. You are stronger than you think 😀
Today on my YouTube channel I am sharing with you a mochi cat sighing on mushrooms doodle gel pen drawing. I love my mochi characters so much. I have been enjoying drawing doodle art with gel pens. We are now up to day 106 of my #drawingdailychallenge. Trust yourself and believe in all that you do ❤
I hope you enjoy the video. Thank you so much for reading and watching! Know that you are the only person who you can control. It is you who chooses the direction that your life goes. Take steps towards your dreams and have trust in yourself with the decisions you make. Have a great day!
Capili Jiron x x