Love is a wonderful feeling that can make your heart sing. It can get you to do silly, crazy and odd things at times. There are different forms of love as we can love our partner, family and friends all in different ways. The main type of love that comes to mind, is the love in a committed relationship ❤
When you are in a committed relationship, there is a common understanding. You are treated as equals, yet know each others strengths and weaknesses. The strengths that you each have are praised and admired. The weaknesses are not looked down on but are encouraged to improve where needed. People can make the mistake of letting someone go just because they are not perfect.
You cannot expect another person to be exactly the same as you. Yes, you may have common interests but even with those interests you can have different views. Let’s say you are both into gaming. You love adventure and fantasy open world games, however your partner loves battle royale games. Even though you both love gaming, there can be conflict if one tries to force the other to play their type of game.
For some people they expect their partner to change as they want them to be a certain way. Your perspective of the ideal partner is always going to be different from everyone else’s, including your partners. When you have chosen to commit to a person, you need to accept that what you see is what you get. Of course, they can choose for themselves to grow and better the person they are as time goes on. You need to love them for who they are. You yourself will do things that they find annoying and may want you to change ❤
They have to love you for who you are and cannot expect you to change based on what they want. With time we each change, this can be into a better or worse version of ourselves. Changing for the worse needs to be acknowledged when noticed. Still at the end of the day, the person being called out for their behaviour, can only be the one who decides if they want to change for the better.
Choose to discuss your values with each other. Not only at the start of your relationship, it can be a good idea to check in with one another about your relationship every year. Doing so, can help both of you see if you still value the same things. You will be surprised with what you cared about in your first year when compared to the current year 🙂
Love is blind. Sometimes we feel like we have it all together and then something catches us by surprise. You do not only learn things about each other at the start, you constantly learn new things as each day goes by, even years later. Sometimes the surprises are ones you could do without but you need to deal with them as best you can. Love is a decision, it is up to you and your partner whether you both maintain your relationship or not ❤
Today on my YouTube channel I am sharing with you a bright sunset mountains acrylic painting. I love seeing mountains in person. Especially when the sun sets behind mountains, it is so stunning to see. Nature provides many beautiful gifts for us. Always find time to appreciate nature ❤
I hope you enjoy the video. Thank you so much for reading and watching! Do not force people to change. Instead, encourage others to change for the better. Love them for who they are and love yourself for who you are. Keep learning and growing. Have a lovely day!
Capili Jiron x x