Rain comes and goes. If we had no rain, no flowers would be able to bloom. Just like a flower, we each go through times that test our ability to grow and overcome difficult situations. In the moments of storms we can choose to ignore the problem or be strong and face it ❤
Yes, it is scary and can require us to be vulnerable when asking another person for help. No one likes to be seen as weak or that they cannot handle a situation, especially if it is a common circumstance. When we are struggling with tough problems it can be hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel, as we are dropping further into despair.
The truth is that during listening to your own most self-critical thoughts, it is important to have the strength to reach out and ask for help. It does not matter how many times people have said no to you before, keep asking. Yes, rejection is painful when you are going through a difficult time but what is more painful is going through it alone and being unnoticed.
There is some good that you can look over when going through such situations. As hard as it can be to review, look at yourself and do your best to figure out why no one wants to help you. Yes, that is an awful thought but it is something that you need to think about. Could it be because you are not close to anyone? Have you not ever offered to help a loved one before when they were going through a difficult time?
The reasons can vary and you will most likely understand the reasons when you figure it out. If it is because you are not close to anyone, that is fine. Ensure that you speak to your doctor and get some help as you do not want to have your condition worsen while being on your own. If it is due to not helping loved ones. Apologise for not helping them, then mention that you really need their help and that you will be there for them from now on 🙂
Not everyone is naturally close with their relationships. Every person has different boundaries with what they are comfortable with. No matter what your upbringing is. You can learn to make your relationships stronger. You can change for the better. If you are a person who does not hug and has never really hugged anyone before. You can spend more quality time with your loved ones.
Get into deep conversations with them. Make sure that you mention how much you care about them and build your relationship stronger from there on. A hug is a meaningful sign of being welcoming, loving and caring towards another person. As love is an action, signs of affection show that we truly love someone. Do your best to love others and love yourself too 😀
Today on my YouTube channel I am sharing with you a cheerful pastel flowers mixed media drawing. Flowers always brighten up my day. I am not into cutting flowers and putting them into a vase. I prefer to see them out in the garden and in nature when going for a walk. We are now up to day 91 of my #drawingdailychallenge. The textures of these flowers are so beautiful ❤
I hope you enjoy the video. Thank you so much for reading and watching! Always remember that things do get better. It is the difficult times that make us stronger. You are stronger than you think and can overcome any situation. Time keeps moving forward and you can too. Have a joyful day!
Capili Jiron x x