Good things take time. Learning to become better at your job, doing further studies to follow your dreams or spending time with those who you care about the most to form stronger relationships, can each take time to master. There is complexity and joy in many of the things that we do ❤
Finding the strength to believe in ourselves is not easy. You are with yourself 24/7 so if your thoughts are mainly negative, it will impact you in a bad way. You may not even realise how harsh you are being towards yourself. Phrases such as “I can’t do this” or “I am not good at anything” can become true for yourself when you say them many times.
The things that others say and what we say to ourselves, can come true for our mind when we repeat what has been said multiple times. It is important to learn to love and believe in ourselves, so that we only speak kind words and do not put ourselves down. Having a positive mind set may be difficult for you as the negativity you have grown up with over the years is something that you are use to.
What is seen as negative for one person may be normal for another. You need to train your mind to recognise what is good to say to yourself and what is not. If you would not be unkind to another person. Why would you say horrible things to yourself? If you do say mean things to other people. Why do you say such things? You need to look over yourself and learn to understand why you speak the way that you do 🙂
It is not easy to tell yourself that you are doing something wrong, yet it is important to recognise it because the sooner you understand what is wrong, the sooner you will be able to change. You are constantly changing even if you do not see it. With each day and new experience that happens to you, it changes you. These changes can be for the better or worse.
To change for the better is up to you. The wonderful thing is that you get to choose what you work towards in life. The goals that you work hard on are decided by yourself alone. If another person tells you that you need to complete a certain goal, it is up to you at the end of the day to do it or not. No one can force you to change or do something that you do not want.
Trust yourself and know that you want to better the person you are. Speak kind words to not only those who you interact with but also to yourself. Have an unconditional love for yourself like you would for those who you love. Forgive yourself for any past mistakes or bad decisions and decide to keep moving forward. You deserve to be loved and live the life you desire ❤
Today on my YouTube channel I am sharing with you a happy mushrooms stacked coloured pencil drawing. These little mushrooms look so happy and adorable stacked on top of each other. It is now day 89 of my #drawingdailychallenge. Always make time for the things you love ❤
I hope you enjoy the video. Thank you so much for reading and watching! Have patience with yourself. See each day is an opportunity to learn and grow. Know that you hold the power to decide on what your future looks like. Keep moving forward. Have a lovely day!
Capili Jiron x x