Happiness comes in moments. Achievements, celebrations and success. It is not the easiest to maintain as life can be difficult at times, causing us to question and review our life so far, every now and then ❤
Sometimes we can feel that time is slipping through our fingers as we cannot stop it. We look back wondering where all of our time has gone. It is as if life itself is teasing us, allowing our minds to run in circles looking for our purpose. What is your purpose in life? Do you believe that every person has one? Some can say that the purpose of life is to love.
Love is an action. It is showing efforts of kindness and affection to another person that you deeply care about. You do these actions not for personal gain. It is to give yourself and do caring things for your true love. Love means to be honest, committed and have your partners back no matter what. Sadly traits of commitment and honestly are not displayed by all people.
Although it seems easy enough to tell the truth every time and be committed in an intimate relationship, some people find it difficult to do so. Not because they cannot, their reason is selfish and for their own personal gain. They need attention from not just one person, it has to be from everyone wherever they go. Needing validation is a poor behaviour, as people who constantly need this will never be satisfied with anything.
The good thing is that if you have this problem, you can choose to change and work on yourself. Self-love is what needs to be worked on. When people truly love themselves, they have values that are embedded within their heart. These values are strong and they will not go against them no matter what. Having love for yourself is to be honest and committed to yourself. When a person can do this, they will easily be able to do the same towards their partner 🙂
Those who want validation need to look in the mirror each day and say that they love themselves. They need to learn to find love, respect, honesty and commitment with themselves first, so that they can do the same when they have a partner. Being in a committed relationship is special and meaningful. It is a beautiful thing to experience life with your best friend 😀
People can feel pressured to be in a relationship. Please know that you do not have to be in one just because people are telling you to. It is better for some people to be single than for them to get into a relationship and hurt the other person by being selfish. Betrayal can happen in many ways, such as being unfaithful, having poor finances secretly and telling lies constantly. Basically keeping secrets is what can ruin any relationship. Honesty is always the best policy 🙂
Today on my YouTube channel I am sharing with you a happy dango on a mushroom coloured pencil drawing. Dango are cute and delicious. I really love how this art piece turned out. It is sweet and happy. It is now day 85 of my #drawingdailychallenge. Give dango a try, if you have not before.
I hope you enjoy the video. Thank you so much for reading and watching! Always stay true to who you are. Do not let anyone change the way you value things. Your values are important. Love yourself and life. Have a lovely day!
Capili Jiron x x