Loneliness can happen in many ways. A person can feel lonely if they have no friends, are not close to their family, not comfortable speaking to other people or feel ignored wherever they go. The feeling of being lonely can happen even if you live with other people ❤
Having no friends is an obvious reason as to why a person may feel lonely. They may have family to talk to but not on the same level as it would be with a friend. Yes, there are some people who can have a relationship with their family as if it is a friendship but it is still different than a relationship with a friend. Friends are usually less likely to judge you harshly if you make a mistake.
True friends have your back no matter what and you have theirs. It is not that your family will not have your back, family can just be more likely to judge in an honest manner which can come across harshly. Friends will be honest too but it is different coming from them haha. Maybe it is because you are about the same age and experiencing things in life at the same time as them. There just seems to be a common understanding 🙂
Having no friends can make a person feel lonely, as if they do not exist. These days people choose not to interact in real life as much, since people are busy and have so much to do. The wonderful thing is that we have technology, allowing us to connect online. However, some people can be scared to talk to others, even if it is online.
Not being close to family, does not mean that you cannot try to rebuild relationships with family members. You can go out for lunch, watch a movie together or walk to a local park. There are many fun activities you can do as a family to get to know one another better. Sometimes it is best to put past feuds behind you and create a better future 😀
Yes, it can be hard to let go of past arguments you may have had with people but it does you no good if it makes you feel lonely and sad due to not speaking to people because of an argument. Sometimes we have to be the strong one and rebuild the relationship. Do your best to get out of your comfort zone and be open to online friendships. Of course, be careful with who you befriend 🙂
Learn to love yourself and enjoy time alone. Yes, connection with others is needed but it is also important to have quality time to yourself. Appreciate who you are. Get lost in your passions. When we do what we love, we become happier. Which is good as that happiness can attract others. Be happy and believe that good relationships will happen for you. Wonderful things are coming for you, so stay strong.
Today on my YouTube channel I am sharing with you a bird and mushrooms coloured pencil drawing. Birds are elegant and lovely to watch. This bird is a little lonely but they will be happy flying soon with the other birds. It is now day 83 of my #drawingdailychallenge. Appreciate yourself and your relationships ❤
I hope you enjoy the video. Thank you so much for reading and watching! Know that you complete yourself. Do what you love every day. Friendships will form along the way while you enjoy your passions. Always love yourself and keep going for your dreams. Have a beautiful day!
Capili Jiron x x