Our minds each work differently. Having values and beliefs that vary from person to person. Just because you live under the same roof as someone else, does not mean that you can expect them to value things equally as you do. As you cannot expect to always agree with each other even if you do have the same values and beliefs ❤
There will be times of conflict, where you feel strongly about being right and vice versa with who you are conversing with. It is natural to want others to see your point of view and get them to agree with you. However, we cannot force anyone to. Whether it is your partner, family or friends. They each have their own unique mind and can think for themselves. Disagreements can arise and arguments can burst out.
It can be hard to swallow your pride, knowing that you are right but we do need to be cautious and pick our battles wisely. If we do not, we can potentially cause damage to our relationships. Choosing to agree to disagree or let the other person have their say and walk away from the conversation can be a better option for everyone involved. A terrible argument is not worth hurting your relationship ❤
Human beings are complex. There is much to our individual minds that is misunderstood. Many of us feel like no one can understand us fully. This is perfectly fine, as who could possibly understand you better than yourself? We tend to forget that our mind is our mind alone, no one is a mind reader and not a single person will ever know exactly what is going on in our mind 🙂
This is actually brilliant as your mind is always going to be yours. It is powerful and can guide you to achieving wonderful accomplishments. You can be your own best friend at times, getting lost in your thoughts and developing ideas. How often do you argue with yourself? I am guessing hardly ever, if anything you may not be able to come to a decision but you will rarely argue with yourself.
We will either give ourselves compliments or say harsh things (harsher than anyone could, as we are our own worse critic). When it comes to giving feedback to others, we may be cautious (depending on our emotions) and think before we say something. With ourselves, thoughts are instant. You can get better at controlling your mind by practising positive behaviours and learning to love yourself 😀
When it comes to our loved ones, we need to take care when leading up to an argument. Some fights are better left with peace than you being right or anyone for that matter. Peace and love between each other is needed. No one likes to be wrong, criticised or feel as though they are dumb. You will not feel better by contributing to someone feeling worse about themselves. Let’s have happy conversations and spread love ❤
Today on my YouTube channel I am sharing with you a tropical sky and trees acrylic painting. The moon and bright sky are vibrant. I love bright colours as they are captivating and beautiful. Some of my favourite holiday memories are from being out in nature at night. Pastel colours are dreamy and magical ❤
I hope you enjoy the video. Thank you so much for reading and watching! Do your best to pick your battles wisely. Yes, sometimes we need to have deep discussions with those we care about but it is not worth getting into a hurtful argument. Spread kindness and love. Keep moving forward as great things are coming. Have a beautiful day!
Capili Jiron x x