We live in a time where it is easy to compare ourselves to others. What people are doing, achieving and planning is constantly expressed on social media. At times it can make us feel as though we are not doing enough with our own life ❤
If you are not careful, emotions of anger, sadness and frustration can arise, causing you to be annoyed at anyone who seems to be doing better with their life. It is not as if you can fully avoid other people, in order to surround the world in your mind with only what you do. There is a limit to how much of the world we can block out at times.
As human beings we need connection with other people. Our voice has a desire to be heard and we have a need to hear what others have to say. It is an exchange of our hearts, sharing words of encouragement and learning from one another, even in the times when we are not feeling our best. This lovely planet that we live on, is not yours alone, it is a home for all life that lives here 🙂
Whenever we feel the need to compare ourselves to others, we have to figure out why we are doing so. Are they better at a skill you are working on? Do they have better resources to work with? Is it bothering you to know, they have accomplished more than you have in a shorter period of time? These questions may hurt to both question and especially, answer.
However, we need to review why we are reacting in an annoyed way and remember that every person is on their own journey in life. That we all work hard for what we achieve. We each have a heart and mind, that can get confused at times and go through all kinds of pain. No one is excluded from the pain and hardships in life. We face the challenges and get stronger every time ❤
Thank you so much for reading! Choose to compete with only who you were yesterday. Choose to love yourself as best you can. Choose to keep moving forward and in those hard times, to never forget who you are or what you want to achieve. You deserve to live your best life and be loved. Know that you hold the power to create the life you dream of. No matter how big that dream is, keep going for it. Have a wonderful day!
Capili Jiron x x