It is a wonderful feeling when you achieve a goal. A satisfaction that you can take pride in. Being proud of something that you have completed is great. At times, when we accomplish great things we can be wary to discreetly share that achievement or keep it to ourselves and not share it at all ❤
Why is that? Should we not be proud of ourselves for achieving something we worked hard for? There are many factors one may consider, when deciding whether to share great achievements. If they have loss weight due to dedicated exercise and healthy eating to better their health, they may be scared that people who see a before and after photo of them, will think that the before picture was better. That they did not need to lose the weight in the first place.
Although they feel much healthier now. It can be easy for others to judge as to what weight they should be. They also could be scared that someone they know may see it as bragging and think they are trying to rub such an accomplishment in their face. Then there can be a person who won a competition by entering a giveaway. Many of the recipients viewing this will think it is amazing and congratulate the winner, as they are happy and would have liked to win such a lovely prize 😀
Of course, there will be some that are jealous as they could have entered the same competition or have wanted to purchase the prize for a long time but are having to save up for it. Then there are those who are in the public eye who have managed to make a living online and want to share their steps to success based on their own experience, as their audience wants to be able to do the same thing with their passions ❤
Majority of viewers will want to know how much a person in the public eye is earning and if they find out it is much more than what they earn, they can be quick to judge. Stating things like that person does nothing and earns way too much or that they do not deserve it. Little do the public know that this person has worked on there dreams for a very long time, being online for about 5 years and 10 years before that offline. The truth is they do deserve it and have worked hard for it. Success takes a lot time and patience.
Can you see why some may choose not share their achievements? No one likes to be judged in a harsh manner that makes them feel unnecessarily terrible for all of their hard work. We want to be proud of our accomplishments, as some of us truly want others to be able to follow our footsteps as best they can, so they can achieve their dreams too 🙂
There is plenty of room on our lovely planet for every single person to become the best version of themselves. We need to be encouraging and supportive of one another. Not have a crab mentality (it is not nice to think about but basically if you put crabs in a bucket and one tries to escape by climbing up, another crab will pinch at it hard until it gives up and stops trying to climb, to a point where they have injured them). The crab mentality is, “If I cannot do that, you cannot too”. Let’s not be like crabs and instead choose to uplift each other, encouraging to climb, not bring each other down ❤
Today on my YouTube channel I am sharing with you a beautiful pink sky moon acrylic painting. Pastel colours like this inspire me to write stories of fantasy and adventure. I love the colours so much, it is very dreamy. We need to imagine from time to time of what we want to achieve in life. Visualising helps to keep you motivated and determined to succeed ❤
I hope you enjoy the video. Thank you so much for reading and watching! Please learn to be proud of what you have achieved. Find courage in sharing your accomplishments, as you never know who you may inspire to do the same. Always remember that if someone has achieved something, that is proof that it is achievable and you can do it too. Go for your dreams. Have a magical day!
Capili Jiron x x
Artist by Beauty 