Life is not one straight line. There are different paths, that we each have to choose from. Some twists, while others turn; looping for what may seem like an eternity. It is complicated as we never know what is going to happen next. Life has a way of keeping us on our toes, yet also getting us excited about the rewards for our hard work 🙂
Without realising it, we are all changing the path of our lives by the choices we make everyday. Each decision you embrace is a step taken to contribute to your overall future. This is for the better or worse. Only you have control over your emotions. If you can learn to be aware that there can be different possible outcomes for your life due to your actions, you will be able to make small changes which can help guide you into the right direction with your goals 😀
There are times when you have to be vulnerable and brave. You need to be vulnerable with your close relationships, opening up you heart to love. Like anything, allowing yourself to deeply care about another being is a huge risk. It is a risk that could potentially hurt your heart, as you are letting a particular person be intimate with you. Love is an amazing feeling, to some it is the best feeling ❤
For those who have been hurt before, it can be hard to love another being again, due to having their heart broken by their previous partner. Their relationship may have ended due growing a part, cheating or betrayal in another form (hiding finances, gambling, addictions etc.). There are many reasons why a relationship could end, sometimes it just does. You have to decide for yourself how to handle such situations and let things go, as you cannot keep dragging yourself through the same pain, over and over again.
If you drifted a part, you need to accept what happened and move forward with your life. If they cheated on you, you need to accept that it happened and decide whether you are going to work it out with your partner or move on without them. So if you do choose to stay with them. You have to learn to forgive with time and let it go, so that you can move on with your life. There is no point staying with someone if all you do is keep reliving the past and hurting each other.
You hold the power to how you feel, no one else does. Although it may feel like someone is making you feel a certain way at times. It is up to you to choose whether you let it go, by moving forward and progressing with your life, or you can choose to stay in horrible thoughts and not move forward. Either option is a choice. Which one will you choose? Thank you so much for reading! Choose to live your best life. Know that you are lovable and deserve happiness. Have a nice day!
Capili Jiron x x