Connecting with another being is magical. Especially, when you know each other well. Since you are comfortable with them, know their interests and they know yours. It is easy to talk to them, as you know how to communicate with each other 😀
It can be fun connecting with someone new. Exciting in the way of getting to know the other person. Although you may be nervous, it can be intriguing to ask questions and introduce yourself in the best light – since they do not know you yet. Flaws are not a requirement to know just yet haha ❤
Even if you are the worlds biggest hermit (many introverts would understand the hermit life – including me lol), you need connection as humans are social creatures by nature. We need to have moments of interaction. Whether that is quick small talk or someone just acknowledging our very existence because no one wants to be invisible – at least not 24/7.
It can be hard for some people to start a conversation with others. I know with myself, I was very quiet as a child all through school. The funny thing was that once people got to know me, I could talk a lot. I think it was some sort of defence thing, that I would be extremely observant and would only talk once I felt comfortable. I grew to get out of my comfort zone and can now easily get to know anyone from the get-go.
I understand that you may be the type of person who prefers to be alone most of the time. Time for ourselves is important as everyone needs their own relax and recharge time. Away from distractions and things that can leave one feeling drained of energy. Although I like to hang out with family and friends, I need at least a couple of hours each day to myself.
I am the type of person who could be put in a corner of a room and would be able to entertain myself with my imagination for hours on end (as crazy as that may sound – which is pretty crazy lol). The company of myself is a person who I find enjoyable and fun to hangout with. There is nothing wrong with having some good quality time with yourself. Self-love is needed love and makes you feel your best! ❤
Learning to connect with others is great, as is learning to love your-self. When you love your-self you will have confidence that will radiate off of you and attract wonderful beings into your life. As when you love-yourself in a nice loving (not “I am better than all”) way, you will be naturally more kinder to others. Instead of being sad that you do not have what some people have, you will be happy for them and know that you will get there one day too.
Today on my YouTube channel I am sharing with you a water colour painting of two lovely caterpillars meeting each other on the leaves of a tree. They look as though they are about to have a nice conversation and hug. I love how fluffy they look!
I hope you enjoy the video. Thank you so much for reading and watching! Connecting with others is a wonderful feeling. Be brave and get out of your comfort zone. Connect with different beings, big and small. Have a lovely day!
Capili Jiron x x